Expat.... Oh Expat....

Whoa.. This is the first time ever that I'm writing a blog this early...=p *gini deh kalo gak ada kerjaan di kantor hehhehe... EH enak aja gak ada kerjaan! Gue lage lunch... tolong... =p*

Yesterday (at work of course), came across an expat's website. Expats in Indonesia to be exact.

http://www.expat.or.id

Got my attention because of one article (couldn't remember what it is now ^^)
Go to Aida Speaks Out and see it for yourself.

She's sarcastic, nope that's not the right word, cynical. Yes! that's the right word. She's a cynic. heuheuhe.. Maybe that's why it catch my attention =p

Anyway, I checked out the forum and read some of the threads. 2 threads made me itch to yell at those stupid (bule) men. *Gee Sen, I think I need to join you on that anger management class =p*

So this stupid man from UK (that's what I assumed anyway, intinya bulelah) Oh, before I go even further, will it help if I tell you guys his nickname? It's Jutawan, so go and look him up huehuehuhe...

He was asking for advices to the forum about coming to Indonesia to find a wife... *hari gini... what are we? A supplier of wives?! Damn, not only we're the biggest (at least according to my opinion) supplier of cheap labors (TKI) but apparently we are also wives supplier. D'oh!*

He's 40ish, and couldn't get any woman there in his home so his (stupid) friend told him to go to Indonesia since he got his wife from Indonesia too.

He also asked what he should do to this girl who emailed him (I guess, she wants him or something) but they have this 18 years of age-gap. >.<
He asked what he should do blablablabla... Oh and btw he's gonna spend about 90 days to find a wife.

Duh! Do you think finding a wife is like buying a candy? And besides, if what he wants is an Indonesia wife, can he not find an Indonesian woman there in his country?? Lord knows that our people is spread around the world.

Well, let me tell him, it'll certainly be easy for him to find a wife in that short of a time.
Just tell those silly women that he's from UK or something. Really, we aren't that particular on where you came from anyway, just as long as you're a bule, so we can brag to our friends that we could snatch a bule. And besides we all think you're rich anyway, so of course we'll go throw ourselves to your feet.

And another expat answered him that Jutawan'll find a wonderful wife that will take care of him just like his wonderful wife that he found in Indonesia when he couldn't get anybody back home.
I'm assuming by take care means that we serve them like a maid? Cook meals, clean the house, feed the kids, make their lives comfortable.....if you know what I'm saying ^.^ Dang! I didn't know that they're just the same like Indonesian men who needs their wives to serve them. ^^

Whoa! I didn't know that all the things that we had (or we'll get scowled for not wanting to learn) to learn long time ago from our moms, that they said it's for our own good when we're married later, is for us to be maids for those bule... huehuheuhe...

Came to think about it (I really need to stop thinking too much), from what I've seen and noticed, most of them prefer "traditional" wives. Ha! Wait til you marry her and you'll see how traditional she'll be, especially when they live abroad. God knows how many of them I've come across and thanks God I have a good (seriously!) self control not to blurt out my mind.

Cape dee... bule gedong doank....*pada tau kan gedong? Gede2 dongo? huahuha* no offense for you ppl who have Indonesian spouse OR bule spouse. If you're offended... too bad! I certainly didn't ask you to read this blog.. =p

To be continued when I'm in the mood to continue or maybe not... Right now I need to go back and earn my measly money.